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The Care Home Viewing Checklist: Questions to Ask (2026)

Care home viewing checklist — questions to ask on a visit, 2026.

Choosing a care home usually comes down to a handful of visits. Brochures and websites will tell you what a home wants you to know — a visit tells you what's actually true. Go with a clear list of questions and a sense of what good care looks like, and you'll know within an hour or two whether a home is right.

Key points
  • Check the home's latest CQC report before you go, then ask questions on staffing, care planning, daily life, fees and contracts when you're there.
  • Visit twice if you can — once by arrangement, once unannounced at a different time of day.
  • How staff speak to and touch residents tells you more than décor, food or facilities ever will.
  • Take notes and photos (with permission) at each home — after three or four visits, details blur together.
  • One red flag isn't a dealbreaker on its own; a pattern of them is.

What should you check before you book a visit?

Do a little homework first, so the visit confirms or challenges what you already know rather than starting from scratch.

  • Read the home's current CQC rating and inspection report in full, not just the headline rating — the detail explains why it got that score.
  • Check how long the rating has stood and whether there's a more recent inspection due.
  • Note the home's registered categories of care (residential, nursing, dementia) and check they match the needs you have now and are likely to have in future.
  • Ask what the guide price is and whether it covers nursing care, or whether that's charged separately.

What questions should you ask about care and staffing?

  • What's the staff-to-resident ratio during the day, and overnight?
  • How many staff are agency or bank staff, versus permanent?
  • What's staff turnover like, and how long have senior staff been there?
  • How and how often are care plans reviewed, and are residents and families involved?
  • What happens if someone's needs increase — can they stay, or would they need to move?
  • How is medication managed, and who administers it?
  • What training do staff have in dementia care, falls prevention or specific conditions relevant to you?
  • How are complaints handled, and can you see the complaints policy?
  • What's the approach to end-of-life care, and does the home work with district nurses or hospice teams?

If dementia care is relevant, ask specifically how the home supports people with dementia day to day — the environment, activities and staff approach differ a lot between homes. Alzheimer's Society and Dementia UK both have guidance on what good dementia care looks like in a care setting.

What questions should you ask about daily life?

  • What does a typical day and week look like, including weekends?
  • Can you see a recent activities schedule, and how is it tailored to individual interests and ability?
  • How much choice is there over meals, mealtimes and eating in a room versus a dining area?
  • Can you see a sample menu, and how are special diets or reduced appetite managed?
  • What are visiting hours, and are there any restrictions?
  • How do residents keep in touch with family — phone, video calls, letters?
  • Can residents bring their own furniture, photos or belongings?
  • Is there outside space, and how often do residents get outdoors?

What questions should you ask about fees and contracts?

Fees are one of the most common sources of dispute later, so get clarity in writing before you commit.

  • What exactly does the weekly fee include, and what costs extra (hairdressing, chiropody, outings, toiletries)?
  • How often do fees increase, and by how much have they risen in recent years?
  • Is a deposit or advance payment required, and is it refundable?
  • What's the notice period if the person wants to leave, or if the home asks someone to move?
  • If the placement is council-funded but the home costs more, would a third-party top-up be needed — and who would pay it?
  • What happens to fees during a hospital stay or temporary absence?

If you're not sure how care home costs work or how the means test applies, the NHS social care and support guide and MoneyHelper both explain the process in plain terms. It's also worth checking whether the person may be eligible for Attendance Allowance or Pension Credit, and whether an attorney under a lasting power of attorney needs to be involved in signing the contract.

How do you get a true picture on the day?

StepWhat to doWhy it matters
1. Planned visitBook a tour, ask your prepared questions, meet the managerGets you the facts and lets you see the home at its best
2. Talk to peopleChat to staff and, where appropriate, residents and their visiting familiesStaff who seem happy and residents who look engaged say more than any brochure
3. Stay for a mealTime part of your visit around lunch or dinnerMealtimes reveal pace, patience, choice and how staff support people who need help eating
4. Second visitDrop in unannounced at a different time — an evening or weekendShows you the home when it isn't expecting visitors, which is the single best check

What are the green flags and red flags?

Green flags

  • Residents look relaxed, engaged and appropriately dressed and groomed
  • Staff linger, chat and make eye contact rather than rushing past
  • The home is clean, homely and smells fresh throughout, including bathrooms
  • Staff give clear, confident answers about care, staffing and fees, without needing to check with someone else
  • The manager knows residents by name and can talk about their individual routines

Red flags

  • Call bells ringing for a long time without being answered
  • Strong odours, or décor that's tired and poorly maintained
  • High staff turnover, or staff who seem unfamiliar with residents
  • Evasiveness or vague answers about fees, contracts or the CQC rating
  • Residents left without stimulation for long periods, or a very quiet, subdued atmosphere
One red flag on its own isn't necessarily a dealbreaker — a busy day happens everywhere. A pattern of them, or defensiveness when you raise concerns, is what should worry you.

Should the person moving in come to the viewing?

If they're able to, yes. Their sense of the place — whether they feel comfortable, whether they like the staff, whether it feels like somewhere they could live — matters more than anything else. It also helps them feel part of the decision, which makes the move itself easier. If a first visit isn't practical because of health or distress, consider a short, low-key visit for a cup of tea rather than a full formal tour.

What should you do after each visit?

  • Write up notes while it's fresh — what you saw, what was said, and how it felt.
  • Take photos of communal areas and bedrooms if the home allows it.
  • Score each home against the same checklist so comparisons are fair.
  • If you're still unsure, ask for a trial stay before committing long term, if the home offers one.

If you haven't already, it's worth arranging a care needs assessment through the council, and checking guidance from Age UK or Carers UK if you're supporting someone as an unpaid carer through this process.

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Frequently asked questions

What's the most important thing to check on a visit?

How staff interact with residents. Warm, patient, unrushed care — even in small moments like helping someone to a chair — is the best predictor of a good home. Facilities and décor matter far less.

Should the person moving in come along?

Yes, if they're able to. Their reaction to the place matters most, and being part of the visit helps them feel involved in the decision rather than having it made for them.

How many care homes should I visit before deciding?

Most families visit three to five shortlisted homes, plus a second unannounced visit to the one or two front-runners. Visiting fewer risks missing a better option; visiting many more tends to make homes blur together.

Can I turn up to a care home without an appointment?

Yes — a reasonable, unannounced visit during normal hours is a fair thing to ask for, and a good home shouldn't object. If a home discourages unannounced visits altogether, treat that as worth questioning.

What if staff won't give a straight answer about fees or the CQC rating?

Take it seriously. A home confident in its care and its finances should answer clearly. Vague or defensive answers on fees, contracts or inspection history are worth following up in writing before you go any further.

Should I ask to see a bedroom?

Yes — ask to see the specific room on offer, not just a show room, and check things like storage, an en-suite or nearby bathroom, natural light, and whether personal furniture and photos are allowed.

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Claire Saltwater

Editor · AskBart

Claire Saltwater is AskBart's Editor and a care-home industry veteran. One of AskBart's earliest team members, she has spent years working in and around social care — so she understands first-hand the difficult, often overwhelming decisions families face when choosing a care home. Claire writes and edits AskBart's advice guides with one goal: clear, genuinely independent information, free of jargon and sales pressure. Away from her desk she loves a good farmers' market and time with her two young children.

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